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Marriage A strong bond between husband and wife. Allah loves eternal stability, disliked separation. Ershad is: "How do you return it (dharna)? But you have become partners with each other, and have taken a strong covenant with you. "[Nisa: 21]

In accordance with this agreement and moharna, Islam has ensured some responsibility and rights among both husband and wife. Which will lead to a happy and lasting marriage because of the implementation-no doubt. Almost all the rights of those rights have been summed up in the Qur'an: "Just as women have rights, so they have the right to be justified and in accordance with the principles. But men superior to women Allah is Almighty, Wise. '[bakarah: 227]

Allah has mentioned in this verse that everyone has the right to everyone. Though men of greatness consider loyalty and guardianship and guardianship. Here we are referring to some important rights that exist between both husband and wife on the basis of level and quality.

Firstly, in all the rights that both husband and wife are equal.

1 Demonstrate mutual honesty, loyalty and goodwill in a bridal life. Those who have an intimate friendship, close relationship, more interaction, the most exchanges are husbands and wives. To give a lasting relation of this relationship, it is imperative to see a good character, mutual respect, humility, laughter, and gossip of errors. And abandoning all such things, words and use, which are both about to be constantly or inconceivable. Allah says: 'Treat them fairly.' [Nisa: 18]

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "The best among you is that your family is good. I am better with my family. '[Ibn Majah: 1967]
Living a favorable life is a great word. All rights exist between it.

2 Enjoy each other. All preparations related to it and accept all materials. For example, the use of cosmetics, fragrances and cleansing of stinking and dirty clothes, etc. Husband and wife everybody is looking into these issues. Moreover, they are also part of life in good faith. Ibn Abbas (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: "I like the clothes of my wife as well as I want to wear my own clothes." But to ensure this right, one should avoid haram and forbidden things.

3 Protect the confidentiality of marital relations. It is best not to talk to others about family problems. Hiding the enjoyable things between husband and wife. The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said: On the Day of Resurrection, the worst person in Allah's court is one who meets his wife and whom his wife meets, then she reveals her secret. [Muslim: 2659]

4 Good wishes for each other, the advice of truth and patience. Cooperate with each other about obedience of Allah. Both husband and wife are more entitled to getting advice from each other. It is a duty both to protect and maintain a life of love. And it is in the midst of being cooperating with each other in maintaining good relations with each other.

Firstly, both of them are equal in relation to child rearing and good education, each other's associate. Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala says: 'Support each other on virtue and piety.' [Ma'ida: 2]

Secondly, the wife's duty to her husband: In order to maintain a happy married life, orderly family, altruism and to keep the bonds of rich husbands and wives strong, the life partner has given some rights to the wife. Some of the important ones are given here.

1. Loyalty to the husband: The wife's duty to obey her husband. But there is no loyalty, but in cases where the following three conditions of loyalty are present.
(A) Obedience to the husband, in matters of good and good works and non-injunctions of Allah. Loyalty to any creature is not valid in the rebellion of God.
(B) Obedience to the husband in case of his ability and ability. Because Allah does not charge people beyond their ability.
(C) Loyalty to the husband in relation to the direction or demand that there is no possibility of any kind of losses.
Loyalty must be required in the Holy Qur'an Allah Subahah wa Ta'ala says: 'Men are superior to women and possess authority.' [bakarah: 227]

Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala also said: 'Men are domestics over women. Because Allah has enjoined the difference between them. Secondly the men take charge of their expenses. '[Nisa: 34]

In addition, the marital life gets stability by this loyalty, the family is on the right track. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said that the woman has accepted the worship of the worship of the Prophet five times and keeps fast during Ramadan and protects her private place and obeys her husband, she will enter inside any door of Paradise according to her wish. [Ahmad: 1573]

The duty of the husband, to follow the laws of Allah in respect of all these rights. Advocating good-natured and good character on the basis of women's capacities and likes and dislikes, or forbidden consideration. Provide good examples and better thinking in terms of giving and stopping the word. In this, you will be able to enjoy the happiness of your wife.

2. Position in the husband-hall: It is not fair to get out of the husband's house without the need and without permission. Allah Almighty has ordered the world's highest women to stay in the house. He addressed the wives of his Prophet (peace be upon him) and said, "All women are included in this." Stay in your house and do not show yourself as the beauty of the ignorance of the ignorance. '[Ahazab: 33]

Do not interrupt the husband's wife in such a way that there is no harm in her husband. Avoid showing the screen, such as perfume and beauty, and do not want to go anywhere. Ibn Umar ra The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: Do not prevent the servants of Allah from going to the House of Allah. [Bukhari: 849]
Abdullah ibn Mas'ood (may Allaah be pleased with him), the wife of al-Anhu, Zaynab Sakefi, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said to us: If any of you wish to go to the mosque, you will not use the perfume. [Muslim: 674]

3. Keeping in mind your own house and your children. Do not present any objection or need of the husband's past. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said that the wife is the custodian of her husband's house. He will be faced with responsibility for this custodian. '[Bukhari: 2546]

4. Protecting Your Chattity and Honor: In a previous discussion, we have mentioned in a hadith of the Prophet (peace be upon him) that in spite of not facing temptation or harassment.

5. Do not allow anyone who dislikes her husband to enter his house: whether close relatives or Aponjans. Such as brother-in-law The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: It is the duty of wives to whom you are not allowed to take place in bed. [Muslim: 2137]

In the presence of her husband, do not keep the fasting fast except without his permission. Because fasting is obligatory-loyalty obligations. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: It is not permissible for women to fast without permission in the presence of their husbands. It is also not permissible to allow someone to enter his house without permission. [Bukhari: 4769]

Some of the important ones are given here.
1. Dahan Mohar: It is obligatory for women to repay their dues. This Haq is not his own, his parents or anyone else. Allaah says: 'Give you wives of dowry in a cheerful heart'. [Nisa: 4]

2. It is the duty of the husband to fulfill the capacity of the wife according to the custom and traditional custom. This can be more or less depending on the fate of the husband and his wife. Such may vary between times and places. Allah Taala says: "The rich will spend their lives according to their wealth." And the person who owns limited resources, can spend from the limited resources given by Allah. The person does not give any command to spend more than the amount given to Allah. [TALK: 7]

3. To be kind and compassionate to the wife: Do not be harsh on the wife. Patience of his tolerant mistakes. As husband, everyone should know that although women are in all possible seats of dignity, it can not be amended in full. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "You are kindly interested in women. Because they are caused by rib bones. The top bone of the rib is the most curved bone. (The bones that have been created by women) If you want to make it straight, break it. If you put it in a condition, then it will remain Burke. So, please be kind to them, and take good advice about them. "[Bukhari]

4. Being self-respecting towards the wife: Holding them hands and handing them in the right direction. Because they are creatively weak, they will be harmed by any husband's indifference, and they will harm others. That is why the Prophet (peace be upon him) has warned so much from the woman's welfare. He said: 'I did not leave women cheerfully more harmful for men in my absence'. [Bukhari: 4706

On the insight of women, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "You are amazed at seeing Sa'ad's emotions and self-esteem. I feel more self-respect, and Allah is 'more arrogant than me'. [Muslim: 275]

Ibn Taymiyyah says in his book, which does not have any self-esteem, he is a liar (husband of an uncharted woman who tolerates the abuse of his wife). Hadith comes: 'Doyah will not enter Paradise.' [Darami: 3397]

The highest level of self-importance in humans is its own family. Preferred wife in this area. Then other relatives and subordinates, In the end, it is necessary to acknowledge the realities of the perpetrators, that no family is a problem less or disagreeable. This is the nature and inherent nature of man. On the contrary, if someone thinks that his family is worthless or disturbed or frustrated, he will make a mistake. This is because the best example of family or happy family is the family and family of our Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). Where do we see human error and error, where is the sanctity of another family?

Thinking about the nature of the wise, avoiding hasty tendencies, avoiding the tendency of anger and indifference, because they know that at any moment the wrath of the devil and the invention of Satan can lead to grave and sinful sin. Again, it is not that Allah has encompassed all good and good man. Of course, he must apply talent, technique and intelligence. Allah blesses us all with a happy and beautiful way, Amin.

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